She is too old, or she is too young. She lives too far away, or maybe too near. She isn't ready for romance, or she already has a boyfriend, nay a husband. She doesn't want children, or she already has some. You think you've found the woman of your life, and there she goes with somebody else. Sounds familiar? Well, I suppose that's the lot of all of us AFCs. OK, more than time to change. With a book like Neil Fiore's The NOW Habit and sites like fastseduction.com, I have a lot of room for efficient self-help. So when do I start? |
Elle est trop jeune, ou trop âgée. Elle vit trop loin, ou peut-être trop près. Elle n'est pas prête pour une relation, ou elle a déjà un petit ami, voire un mari. Elle ne veut pas d'enfant, ou elle en a déjà plusieurs. Vous pensez avoir trouvé la femme de votre vie, mais elle s'en va avec un autre. Cela vous semble familier? Eh bien, cela semble être le lot de nous autres les AFCs. Bon, ben il est temps de changer. Avec un livre comme The NOW Habit de Neil Fiore, et des sites comme fastseduction.com, j'ai tout plein d'occasions pour m'améliorer de façon efficace. Alors quand est-ce que je commence? |
| | François-René Rideau ( |
July 25 2003, 19:17:43 UTC 8 years ago
* not caring very much OR the self-control necessary to appear that way
* reading women (more generally, reading people: the first step may be to pay them more attention)
* self-confidence and playfulness
But I wouldn't want to deprive the world of your creativity.
August 19 2003, 01:45:16 UTC 8 years ago
I've blogged about it, and others have picked up the meme since. I already spread two levels away from you.
As usual, I am a skeptic, and would be please to see scientific studies regarding women's reactions, etc. But from my experience, most things there sound about right.
August 20 2003, 17:37:20 UTC 8 years ago
some other forum
I used to be very active on the internal forums of the ENS.fr, until I decided that it was too bad spending time on some place where your good interventions aren't publicly archived for eternity -- even though the intellectual level is exceptionally high for a chit-chat place (not that I am not on mailing-lists with high profile people for specialized discussion domains).It is in one of these forum that some years ago, I heard about alt.seduction.fast.